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Dan Segal's avatar

This, from your fellow Catholic A.M. Hickman here on Substack, is consistent with my experience of the Catholic Church in America:

If you start going to a Church and notice:

No one ever greets newcomers

There’s no regular after-Mass fellowship

There are basically no young people or families

Almost no one dresses decently

The Priest never makes himself available and the Parish office never calls back

The process to convert, baptize, or marry is insanely bureaucratic and the vibe is “this will be a hassle,” or even: “why are you bothering?”

The music, liturgy, and decor is all 70’s-era instead of traditional

There’s never a line for confession (or confession is barely ever offered)

You will start to realize why so many people look at you like you have two heads when you exhort them to become Catholic. Note that there are thousands of Churches that are exactly this way in America. Many of them are seeing their Parish enrollments decline, cancellations of Masses, and many of them will be shuttered in the next ten years or sooner.

But at the council meetings at these Churches, people will repeatedly say: “What are we doing wrong? Where are the young people? What a tragedy it is that so few people come to Mass these days!”

Faithful Catholics (or those who aim to convert) who are stuck going to Churches like these carry a huge, heavy burden — they are bearing the Cross of their faith alone, without the friendship of their fellow Christians. Their own Church treats them as an annoyance; they have no fellowship or support system for when the going gets tough.

And, after a long enough period of carrying this burden, they one day step into an SSPX Church, or an Orthodox Church, or an ICKSP, or even a Protestant Church and someone says “hello” to them on their first visit. The Priest goes out of his way to welcome them. The other young Christians invite the newcomers along to a potluck, or a Bible study. That sticks with them. I understand why.

Our duty as faithful Roman Catholics is to stare straight into this challenging time in the Church’s history and never balk or fold. We must fix these problems in our Parishes. The mess we’ve inherited is daunting to imagine fixing — but leaving it entirely should rightly be considered unthinkable and even nihilistic. On the 2,000-year time scale of Christ’s Church, the fruit has been immeasurably good. His Church will never die. It is our job to hold the line, as unenviable a task as this may seem. We must hold the line even if we are alone, scorned, maligned, and constantly encouraged by others to give up.

This is our generation’s Cross to bear. God help us.

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Chris Noyes's avatar

Beautiful summary of Catholic teaching on the real presence of Jesus in the Eucharist. I’m going to share this with my family.

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